If so, how does it matter?
If not, why does it not matter?
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Men are often competitive by nature with each other and there is one element that can either be a source of pride of beast of shame: Penis size. Consciously or subconsciously, a man’s cock is one of the most important things in his existence. He defines much of his worth and identity by it. It is a source of fascination at a young age but sooner or later insecurity sets in and the question he will ask himself is “is my dick too small?” Penis size comparisons are made to the penises of fathers, older brothers, friends, and pornographic imagery.
Yes, penis size does matter but only to a degree. As long as your penis size equates to at least the reported average erect size, you have noting to worry about!
Initially, worldwide studies since 1942 (with over 11,000 participants) found that the average length of an erect adult penis is between 5.5 inches (13.97 cms) and 6.2 inches (15.74cms) and 5.1 inches (12.95 cms) in girth. In 2015 it was discovered that the average erect penis was only 5.2 inches (13.2 cms). The reason for this error was that calculations that were collected were calculated by men measuring themselves. Many of the applicants either did not know how to measure their penis’s correctly or deliberately inflated their measurement.
Men tend to make a bigger deal about the size of their penis than their partners actually do. Apparently, a smaller cock suggests a reduction of masculinity. In order to obtain ideal masculinity one must have a big dick, equivalent to the penile images found in pornography.
Companies selling penis enlarging creams, pills and extension pumps are making a killing by declaring scientifically impossible claims and preying on this obsession and insecurity. In actual fact, the only way a penis can become longer is through surgery. People tend to forget that there really is no consensus on what is a perfect sized cock. Just like a woman’s breasts, each member has its own set of characteristics.
When it comes to procreation, a longer cock is effective in removing rival male sperm. A longer penis ensures that a man’s genes are passed on, it makes semen displacement more effective when the penis is able to go deeper into a vagina.
Penis size also has a big impact on gay male self esteem. Gay men who identify as bottoms (receivers of anal sex) tended to look for more “well hung” men whilst tops (givers of anal sex) would often advertise and boast about their size and capacity. Cock size worship is quite common in the gay community. It is considered fairly normal to ask for a picture of man’s cock before making the decision to meet up with him in person. However gay men, particularly bottoms, who are not so fixed on size will attest that an average sized penis is much easier and more pleasurable to take anally. Ultimately a big cock is only really good to look at.
There is no physiological reason why a large penis is any better over a more moderate sized one. A vagina generally extends to about a length of 10cm only. Any penis will fill the vagina completely unless it measures shorter than 4 inches. A large penis of 8 inches can also be accommodated provided the man inserts it gradually and provides her with enough excitement. Penis perspective should also provide some reassurance for men who who stress about their size. When a man looks down at this cock, the view is not as kind a when a sexual partner is looking at it up close and personal.
Men must abandon ideas of inadequacy over penis size. If they are the average erect size of 5.2 inches or more they focus more on how they use it. That is what really determines a great lover. If they are slightly below 5.2 inches I’m sure that the same rule applies. If they are well below it, they have my deepest sympathies and surgery is the only option to add an extra inch.
Believe it or not, I have never measured my cock so I’m not exactly sure how big it is. I never had angst over the size of my penis at any stage . I did not raise myself on pornography, hence I had no real comparison point. It was what it always was and it seemed to do it’s job well. I would say I’m bigger than average simply by looking at vibrators and dildos that are around 5-5.5 inches. I’ve always been more concerned about how I use it and I guess i use it well. It always seems to entice big grins, enthusiasm and moans of ecstasy….
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